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apple_pathwaysDay 14 - Favorite character in a book (of any sex or gender)
I'm confused as to why the author of this meme felt to need to specify "of any sex or gender"? As far as I am aware, the term "character" contains no inherent sex or gender connotations. *shrug*
I'm not sure that I could pick my absolute favorite character! I think I love more characters than I do individual books. Also, I like characters for different reasons: some because I identify with them, some because they're funny or courageous or smart--some characters I love just because they're so incredibly unique and fascinating. Hannibal Lecter is one of my favorite characters, but I like him for different reasons than I like, say, Elizabeth Bennett.
So, rather than make an impossible decision about the one character I love above all the rest, I'll just briefly discuss one character I identify with and have not already mentioned in previous discussions of my favorite books: Beatrice from Much Ado About Nothing.
Much Ado About Nothing is my favorite of Shakespeare's plays, and the BBC audio adaptation starring David Tennant as Benedick vies with my favorite songs for most-listened to track on my iTunes. The "merry war betwixt" Beatrice and Benedick is what makes the play for me, and I can't help but ignore the dishwater dull Hero and her dopey lover Claudio: their ridiculously tragic love story is just a diversion.
I identify with Beatrice because I'm a girl who likes to crack a joke. When I was young and socially awkward, I developed my sense of humor as a means to relate to my more successful peers, who found me bookish and odd. Learning to laugh at myself and make others laugh with me became a necessary survival strategy, and my best means of winning over friends. Now, even though I'm older and more confidant, I still use humor to relate to others, and it's become an invaluable tool of my profession.
Other ways I'm like Beatrice? I'm incredibly stubborn, and there's no better way to manipulate me into doing something than to suggest I should do otherwise; I love to be contrary. I've never been one to make any great efforts towards romance, and am practically incapable of changing myself to impress the opposite sex: I'm the same loud, gregarious, opinionated person whether I'm trying to flirt or not! By the time it might occur to me to "play dumb" with a guy I like in order to make him feel good about himself, I've probably already corrected or contradicted him half a dozen times. I generally mean well, and even though I might make a joke that's at someone else's expense, I genuinely expect them to see the humor in it and feel terrible if they don't.
And like Beatrice, I find these same qualities endearing in a partner: I like a man who's bold and funny and find it endearing if he occasionally puts his foot in his mouth due to a lack of caution. I need someone who can verbally spar with me, and give as good as he gets. I like a man who drives me just a little bit insane.
I love Beatrice for her flaws and her quirks and for everything I want others to appreciate in me. Is there any greater way to identify with a character?
ETA: I figured I'd add this on here since it's book-related and I don't want to make an entirely new entry. So: I am reading The Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins and enjoying it IMMENSELY. I'm about 2/3 of the way through, and should finish it tomorrow sometime. I just went to my library's website to put in a request for the sequel, Catching Fire.
As part of the entry for Catching Fire is a two-line summary of the sequel that SPOILS THE ENDING TO THE FIRST BOOK!. ARGHH!!!! I am so mad!
Please remind me that it's inappropriate to send death threats to public libraries...
I'm confused as to why the author of this meme felt to need to specify "of any sex or gender"? As far as I am aware, the term "character" contains no inherent sex or gender connotations. *shrug*
I'm not sure that I could pick my absolute favorite character! I think I love more characters than I do individual books. Also, I like characters for different reasons: some because I identify with them, some because they're funny or courageous or smart--some characters I love just because they're so incredibly unique and fascinating. Hannibal Lecter is one of my favorite characters, but I like him for different reasons than I like, say, Elizabeth Bennett.
So, rather than make an impossible decision about the one character I love above all the rest, I'll just briefly discuss one character I identify with and have not already mentioned in previous discussions of my favorite books: Beatrice from Much Ado About Nothing.
Much Ado About Nothing is my favorite of Shakespeare's plays, and the BBC audio adaptation starring David Tennant as Benedick vies with my favorite songs for most-listened to track on my iTunes. The "merry war betwixt" Beatrice and Benedick is what makes the play for me, and I can't help but ignore the dishwater dull Hero and her dopey lover Claudio: their ridiculously tragic love story is just a diversion.
I identify with Beatrice because I'm a girl who likes to crack a joke. When I was young and socially awkward, I developed my sense of humor as a means to relate to my more successful peers, who found me bookish and odd. Learning to laugh at myself and make others laugh with me became a necessary survival strategy, and my best means of winning over friends. Now, even though I'm older and more confidant, I still use humor to relate to others, and it's become an invaluable tool of my profession.
Other ways I'm like Beatrice? I'm incredibly stubborn, and there's no better way to manipulate me into doing something than to suggest I should do otherwise; I love to be contrary. I've never been one to make any great efforts towards romance, and am practically incapable of changing myself to impress the opposite sex: I'm the same loud, gregarious, opinionated person whether I'm trying to flirt or not! By the time it might occur to me to "play dumb" with a guy I like in order to make him feel good about himself, I've probably already corrected or contradicted him half a dozen times. I generally mean well, and even though I might make a joke that's at someone else's expense, I genuinely expect them to see the humor in it and feel terrible if they don't.
And like Beatrice, I find these same qualities endearing in a partner: I like a man who's bold and funny and find it endearing if he occasionally puts his foot in his mouth due to a lack of caution. I need someone who can verbally spar with me, and give as good as he gets. I like a man who drives me just a little bit insane.
I love Beatrice for her flaws and her quirks and for everything I want others to appreciate in me. Is there any greater way to identify with a character?
ETA: I figured I'd add this on here since it's book-related and I don't want to make an entirely new entry. So: I am reading The Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins and enjoying it IMMENSELY. I'm about 2/3 of the way through, and should finish it tomorrow sometime. I just went to my library's website to put in a request for the sequel, Catching Fire.
As part of the entry for Catching Fire is a two-line summary of the sequel that SPOILS THE ENDING TO THE FIRST BOOK!. ARGHH!!!! I am so mad!
Please remind me that it's inappropriate to send death threats to public libraries...