lol! My dad asked my brother if he was gay when Dom was in his late teens... Dom was all "...what?" But actually we think it's kinda cool that my dad - who is not at ALL good about discussing feelings or whatever - decided to broach it with Dom. He had decided Dom might be gay because Dom spent much of his teen years being super emotional and ANGRY. Which apparently translated to maybe gay in my dad's mind?
Sometimes I wonder if I hadn't been in a series of relationships from my teens onward - I have been a serial monogamist - if I might have been less straight. Certainly I would term myself as heteroflexible. I think sexuality is very complex, and whilst a large part is innate, I do think some is socially learned and we can move back and forth along the spectrum during our lives. If I hadn't spent most of my life dating men, maybe I would have been interested in more women. I'm a lot more in touch with the side of myself that can find women attractive, though I don't think I'd identify as bi.
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Sometimes I wonder if I hadn't been in a series of relationships from my teens onward - I have been a serial monogamist - if I might have been less straight. Certainly I would term myself as heteroflexible. I think sexuality is very complex, and whilst a large part is innate, I do think some is socially learned and we can move back and forth along the spectrum during our lives. If I hadn't spent most of my life dating men, maybe I would have been interested in more women. I'm a lot more in touch with the side of myself that can find women attractive, though I don't think I'd identify as bi.